What do you all think or what would you do if you were us.
We will be starting the paperchase very soon and have already given money to our agency to start the process in China. I am beginning to wonder if we should involve ourselves in a process that is getting a little complicated. I really understand that this is the nature of international adoption but as you can imagine, I am waivering on whether to jump in. Dh wants to continue forward and he thinks ( although he has not really followed the latest) everything will speed up and he believes the process IS the most reliable.
I know you guys can't know the future. I just needed to post my thoughts. It is a bummer for all of us.