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Ideally, I would think that it would have been best if M's birthmother had talked to you about it first. She probably means no harm, but I completely understand why you feel uncomfortable--it's a touchy situation.
Are you able to sit down with her and tell her what you overheard and bring your concerns to her before she asks again? If you come to an understanding, you might be able to plan what you'll both say to M before the question comes up again.
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