I know the wait seems long, but unlike fertility treatments its not if but when.
That was why my DH and I decided to adopt rather than going through infertility treatments.
We can do this, so it may take longer than expected, but it will happen.
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Winter's Mom 
4/4/05 Application to agency
5/9/05 1st Homestudy
5/12/05 Approval from agency
6/7/05 Sent in I600 Form
7/15/05 Final Homestudy
7/28/05 Homestudy Approved
8/12/05 Fingerprinted
8/14/05 Certified Waiting for I-171H
9/02/05 We got our I-171H
10/21/05 DTC
11/05/05 LID
In translation