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Ahhh well I guess I may see things a bit differently. I have 2 of *my own* and adopted a little girl, and I use the phrase that "I couldnt love her more if she had come from me". I dont think she meant anything by it either. I think that most people on here read WAY too much into what people say and do when it comes to adoption. JMO
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Me:Aaron-32 and
DH:Chad-33
Bio mom of: G- 9, B- 6,
A-mom of: A-3yr
Homestudy Aug 2004
Contacted w/ first Agency Dec 2004
Waited 8 months
Contacted w/ 2nd Aug 2005
3 weeks later matched
Baby A born 8/20/05
In our arms for good 8/25/05
Postplacement begins...
postplacement done
papers filed with courts in 11/05!!!!
awaiting judge signoff!
Finalized on 6/06
Starting again 7/06
Homestudy for 2nd adoption started 7/06
HomeStudy visit 8/3/06
Application sent to agency 8/9/06
6/07 Contact by agency for 2 seperate adoptions in 2 weeks and declined... Decided to give it time
1/09 Deciding to Adopt again and probably wont start till mid year with home study and all that fun stuff...
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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
– Theodore Seuss Giesel
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