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another thought
We just got a call earlier this week asking us to take a placement of a 2 year old girl. The foster parents were told they would be able to adopt her and then the plan changed to RU. With the plan they will likley be RU with their family on May 1st and they are doing weekend visits. They just couldn't keep her any longer it was just too hard.
We declined for our own reasons but the first thing my husband said when I told him about it was...."Why are they giving up before it's even over....if we hadn't stuck it out till the very last minute than We wouldn't have bee able to adopt our little girl...you just never know what will happen."
I wish you the best in whatever you decide. BUt I don't think you should feel bady if you choose to go with these other kids. The kids you have now will be ok...kids are remarkably resiliant besides your family does come first...and if these other kids are eant to be yours you will feel it. Trust your own instincts and don't worry about how others will judge you.
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