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I don't think children can see the big picture. You may be able to see that the kids you have now would be well taken care of in another foster home (or "homes", if split up), and that reunification is not very far away (if it really happens). But how will the kids feel? I don't think they would understand. I think it would be a wound to them. For now they are your children and you are the only mom they have. If it were me, I hope that I would be able to suffer myself (suffer the loss of not getting the other children) rather than cause my children to suffer. I know the other children are a huge temptation, but when we are tempted that is when we find out our true moral fiber.
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