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Very difficult situation!!!
You never know what's going to happen in a case. With my daughter the first year they kept saying she'd likely be up for adoption....then at the 1 year court judge granted another 3 months to continue working for RU then 3 months later they were continuing with the goal of RU and startingday/weekend visits to prepare for the transition. At the next court she was supposed to go home and one failed drug test at court turned the whole scenerio around. Bmom surrendered her rights and before we knew it she was ours forever. So I'm a strong believer that if it's supposed to happen IT WILL.
But if you feel strongly that these other kids are meant to be yours then maybe you are meant to act on it. We felt strongly in our case that we had to wait it out and see her through to the very end....even though it was sooooo difficult...and we are so glad we did.
Again....not saying that will happen in your case....just saying to follow what your heart is telling you!!!
Good Luck either way!!!!
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