[dukedelta]

Hi there - Any advice would be appreciated...We've had our son since he was 2.5 (he's now nearly 4). Before us, he lived since birth with a wonderful foster mom. She stated she wanted to stay in touch and we spoke often when he first came to us. But I think I offended her early on when I didn't agree to a sleep-over at her house before Christmas (it was so soon after we transitioned and I was afraid he'd be confused; I did offer to visit though!). I sent her pictures and got no response. Lately, my son has been insistently asking about "his other mom" and wants to visit. I wrote her again recently asking to get together and sent a new picture - still no response! What should I tell my son when he asks to see her again? We do have pictures of her, and we do talk positively about her to him. Thanks!