[twinflana]

I am so sorry to hear this I know how excited you were last week when you thought they were being TPR'd. Have you talked to the caseworker since Monday? Is that why you think they are being RU?

I honestly dont know what to tell you I know how much you love those children, I would be afraid that I would give them up and then it turns out that they were TPR'd. I know how much you want to adopt and dont you think that if you pass on this other sib group there will be another one down the road?

Of course if it was me I am always the type to make snap decisions and not think things through I would try to get the other sib group but it is not me and I have not lived with these children as you have.

Maybe you could call the caseworker and tell her that you are thinking about giving them up because you want to be able to adopt and you were told that they were being ru, maybe she will give you a straight answer then.

i know i havent been any help, my prayers are with you. If you need to talk you can call me any time. You have let me unload on you plenty of times and feel guilty that I havent been able to return the favor.