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Deb, I don't think you're horrible. You are in a tough place and asking a real question. I would find out is RU for sure? If so, are these kids that you are wanting to pursue FOR SURE going to go to your home if the others are going for RU? If this is the case, and you feel peace, then I would go for it. Otherwise, I would question the risk of having none of these children with you if you can't get the sib group.
Best to you,
MJ
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Mommy by adoption to 2 beautiful boys, one born in '01, the other in '03. Now mommy to a new little girl born in '08, full bio to our oldest son. This adoption is in progress. We adopted through Oregon's DHS.
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