Here is where we sit at( please dont think of me as a bad person) Most ofyou know we have a sib set of 4 - K we have had since 6-05 and S from the hospital 8-05 ,then F ((8) and N (3) since 2-06 we were told for almost the entire time that this would turn to TPR well now they are saying it will most likely be RU in the next few months ( we should know on Monday) Well we have a chance at a sib group of 3 (3yo boy,2 yo girl, newborn girl) that are going to TPR next month it shoud be over with and free for adoption but we can not get them placed with us until K,S,N,F are not here.As well as the fact the J's mom just had a baby that is going into care and will be free for adoption at the same time J is.
So do we (after monday) ask to have the other ones moved so we can get the children that we can adopt and start getting over loosing K& S or do should we just tuff it out and wait until they are RU??
I dont want to loose these guys We love them so much, but if I am going to have to anyway then should I go ahead and start moving on?
I know it sounds horrible and I feel so bad for even thinking it but I just dont know
Please dont be to hard on me I dont think I can handle to much fire!