originally posted by jpe
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Read the boards here where all these loving people are dying for the opportunity to adopt a baby. They would LOVE you forever for giving them the opportunity to parent.
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Excuse me if I repeat anything already posted as I have not read any further on this thread. The above "idea" just requires immediate concern and correction.
Adoption is NEVER about giving prospective parents what they are wishing for....adoption is doing what is best for YOU and YOUR CHILD. period. You do NOT owe anyone a baby. It is NOT your responsibility to provide a baby for "people who are dying for the opportunity to adopt a baby."
Jpe,
not meaning at all to attack you, but rather to understand your logic. You state
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They would LOVE you forever for giving them the opportunity to parent.
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yet you, yourself have previously posted that you definately want a closed adoption and that you can't understand why people would want anything but. I can't connect those two statements in my mind.