[jsimon]

Well we met with the Attorney yesterday. The papers are being filed today. I hope this goes well. I am not looking forward to the phone call from the BF when he gets served. I just hope I can convince him it is in his and my daughters best interest. After talking to the Attorney I realized that no matter what the BF is going to have a hell of a time getting access to my daughter. Even if he took us to court for visitation he would only get supervised and then paying for that on top of child support, he just wont be able to afford that. So I have that as ammo. He just doesn't have the capacity to really be a good father. Plus, She already has a daddy. And he is there to hug and kiss her everyday. My husband is the one that has been providing for her for the last year and a half. This is so stressful. And I have a feeling it is going to be a long road ahead.