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In our adoptions, we made sure that we did not have 'one' of any one race. We have adopted internationally (Korea and Japan); through the state system (two were seemingly CC, one possibly NA/CC), and our two youngest are AA.
We do think it is important...though not to the point that I would specifically adopt another hispanic baby. Rather, I personally would not be open to a CC baby.....but any baby of color.
We always felt that this was important. Our first two (Asian babies) are now grown. They have expressed that they've not felt having the 'same race' was such a big deal. But, I can tell you that already, it has been good to have two AA babies. The older of the two, is already showing curiosity over the difference in skin color of her momma and daddy and herself. We think that in years to come, this 'sameness' will serve them both well.
It is an individual choice for each family; but for us, it was certain we would have more than one child of any one race. We hope to adopt another baby, and we will not accept anything other than an AA baby.
My best to you in your decision.....
Sincerely,
Linny
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