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To me the better question is "Why wouldnt you want an open adoption"? How wonderful for your potential child to be able to have all questions answered honestly by you and his or her bparents, not have to go through the difficulties of trying to locate bfamily if they so chose to,have all acess to medical records, etc. It just seems logical to me, since the child is the most important person in the situation, we should do whats best for them. Please research the benefits of open adoption, you can do that right here on the forums. Check out Bromanchik's posts she is a Bmom who had one of the first open adoptions back in or around 1980. Check out our Open adoption Forum, in the adoptive parents forum. The best thing you can do for your potential child is read, listen and learn. Keep an open mind, and if in the end you still dont think it is for you, then Please dont promise an Expectant mom anything you dont fully intend to follow through on. Good luck to you!
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"I have learned that people won't remember what you said to them, they won't remember what you did to them, but they will always remember how you made them feel"
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