[MommyBear]

siisyminsky - I don't think you need to match yout next child to your son. Now that you've already adopted transracially, you are already diverse as a family. Your son will be raised to love you as if there were no differences and he will grow to love a sibling that way too. If you want a girl, that's fine - go for it and don't worry about race.

icunurse - I appreciated hearing that you thought you would match with an AA girl, but ended up with a CC boy. We are CC and I just have the strongest feeling that we will be matched a Hispanic boy! We are already "planning " our 2nd adoption - a girl from China! Won't we be surprised when things work out exactly the way the universe wants it - as opposed to what we've "planned" LOL