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i too, sent out e-updates. it's a good way to keep people informed - even though there may be little to say - and it does decrease the number of people asking.
as someone who has dealt with this for a very long time (21 months since our first trip), i empathize completely. it is so hard. you don't want to be rude or appear unappreciative of other people's support, but it gets so tiresome to try and explain the unexplainable.
and most people, through no fault of their own, just don't get it. heck, most of us don't completely get it!!
that's why having this forum is so great.... we speak the same language and can really, REALLY understand each other.
i try to remember that every time a person asks, it's because they care. that really does help me. people care about our future son and about us.
hang in.
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"As you do not know the path of the wind,
or how the body is formed in a mother's womb,
so you cannot understand the work of God,
the Maker of all things." Ecclesiastes 11:5
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