I can kinda understand what you're going through, but for a little different reason....we were open to many races when we started the adoption process. We ended up with a CC DS. When we were starting up the process for a second child, we did question how much a child of a different race would "stick out" in our family (as we are all CC), would he/she feel slightly alienated, etc? We also wonder if the fact that our DS is CC will be a factor for pbmom not choosing us if their child isn't CC. In the end, we decided to leave our race choices open. A lot of people have families who don't share the same race and they seem just fine.
