[echobunny89]

I am so flipping angry right now, I am seeing red! I allowed my 16 yr old foster daughter C and my 14 yr old bio daughter go out to the mall with C’s 17 yr old boyfriend and a couple of his friends all in the same age range. I have met these boys on a couple of previous occasions and my opinion was that they were nice kids. Fast forward to last night- I allowed C’s boyfriend to drive them to the mall, which is the local teen hangout, because it is right down the street from my home. At 10pm I get a call from my bio-daughter who is hysterical because C’s boyfriend drove off and left them at the mall without a ride home because the girls would not give “oral favors” to C’s boyfriend. Apparently, the boyfriend and one other boy decided that the girls needed to pay for the gas to drive them home and since they had no money they could give oral sex to the boys in exchange for a ride home. My fiancée just about lost it when he found this out and it was all I could do to prevent him from going and hunting down these boys. Needless to say we had a very LONG talk to the girls and we decided that they won’t be going off unsupervised outside of the house for a very long time. It is not that we don’t trust them, but we don’t trust their choices of “friends” as of late and these “friends” are all of C’s. I am afraid that she is becoming a very bad influence on my bio-daughter who has always had a good head on her shoulders. This is the second time that C has gone out and has been abandoned without a ride home and this is the second time that C has been put in a situation were she was told to “put out or get out”.



What really gets me is that I pulled C’s cell phone records on the computer today and she is still calling that boy! She called him several times last night after 11pm and called him at 7am after I made it clear to her that she was to have nothing to do with him! I also found out that she has been using the cell phone to call this boy at all hours of the night and talked from 1am -3am just this past Tuesday night! 35 hours total cell phone hours used past 10pm in the last 7 days alone! I am livid! I took her cell phone away and don’t know if she’ll be getting it back anytime soon.



I don’t know what I am going to do about all this I am very upset right now especially since I just spent over $5000 building a bedroom for C and her two sisters and all C can do is complain about the color of the walls and complain that she has to share a room with her two sisters. I don’t know. I mean this child has it much better here than she has had at the various group homes she has been in where she has had to share rooms with all kinds of kids- some not too nice. There is no appreciation. Oh, and her new thing is she is dropping out of school as soon as she turns 18. She was truant so much in the 9th grade that they made her repeat a grade and now she is a year behind and won’t graduate until she is 19. AAAAAggggggggg!