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I would LOVE to adopt both, but my agency doesn't allow it. Believe me, I've already done the math-- I have to have 3 postplacement visits in 6 months before I can finalize the first adoption. I would hate to jeopardize finalization with one in order to try to adopt the other.
With my agency, I don't have a lot of say once a pbmom selects me. As long as she meets my written criteria, it's pretty much a done deal. There is a match meeting, but it's done post-selection.
The August mom has not contacted my lawyer. In my state, the pbmom can't speak with my lawyer and I can't speak with hers (except, of course, to send the fee!). I did meet with her, and she certainly LOOKED pregnant, but I haven't seen any medical report. I don't think she's a scammer, but (unfortunately) I've been wrong before, so who knows?
Thanks for your responses.
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