[Niclayson]

A visit trip is like an ultrasound??? Huh??? People say very stupid things.

I have decided that most people are just essentially CLUELESS about adoption. They don't mean to be moronic, but they come across this way. I also believe that people are also caught up in their own lives and their own experiences...and compare the experiences of others to their own. They simple don't get that adoption IS difficult and stressful.

I have had two biological kids....both with serious pregnancy complications. I have had several miscarriages. None of that was as stressful as my son's adoption.