I am so sorry, but sadly not surprised, to hear this. We had two siblings (1 year old and newborn) placed with us for adoption and after 19 months they came and took the younger one and returned him to his mom in rehab. We are finalizing on our adoption of the sister this month. Our family was told on a Friday that they would be picking him up on the following Monday. It was the most heartwrenching experience we've ever gone through, and we're still going through it. His sister literally begs us to get him back. When new cars pull into our driveway, she thinks it may be a worker bringing him back. She prays for him and asks God to let him come home. We all miss him with all of our hearts. It doesn't help that they were the same size and looked like twins. You can't look at her and not see him. Her adoption should be a time of celebration, but instead, it's very bittersweet. Our hearts are filled with great joy and sadness at the same time. He didn't want to go. He screamed and his eyes searched our faces frantically, begging for an answer. We didn't have an answer to the insanity that would separate siblings like that, returning the one to a parent he had no relationship with.
I ache with you and for you..............
