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I have never been in your situation but I must say this. Read the boards here where all these loving people are dying for the opportunity to adopt a baby. They would LOVE you forever for giving them the opportunity to parent. If you're not in the right situation to parent, and the timing is bad, I personally feel like I'd be at ease just knowing I am giving my child to a family that is fully ready and eager to support and raise a baby. I'm sure it's much easier said than done but I would feel happiness knowing I did the right thing rather than guilt. You need to think long and hard though -- maybe talk to a psychologist and talk with an agency get advice/couseling. In my mind the most important question would be "can another family provide and support your baby better than you can"?
I wish you the best of luck in your decision. Babies are a beautiful thing and I think it's wonderful whenever anyone creates a baby, whether they give it up or not.
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