[onceisenough11]

I am a new member here and just recently found out I was pregnant. I am considering adopting, although am not totally sure yet. I have a question for birth moms who put their children up for adoption: Do any of you struggle with the guilt of adopting a baby out and then later in life parenting one? I just feel that if I give this child up for adoption, that somehow I am not "entitled" to have or raise any more. I do really want children, but this point in my life is not the best and I was caught totally off guard. Can you ever have a family life after adoption without the overwhelming pain? Please help.~ Thanks.