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Runyan...I understand your point..and I also understand the point made about the birth control. I don't think she meant it in a "blaming" way, kwim? More that for years the medical industry provided birth control without realizing that there might be a lot of other affects from it. I wonder about that myself, not that I blame myself or think people are saying "well you took birth control so if you can't conceive, too bad for you." I do wonder though if there are studies affecting fertility from birth control. Would be nice to know I think.

As far as Ashton's comment...he is a comedian of sorts so I think it's his attempt at being funny. Failed, of course, but think he was being sarcastic?

I don't know...all this talk recently about celebs adopting...the media just pounces on it and makes a mockery of something that's so personal and special to all of us.