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after being around american children for 23 years, in the inner city classroom, i can say that american children are some of the most disturbed children around. many put up for adoption are crack/met babies. there is no test, or formal diagnosis, but i can say they do not have a normal conscience, do not respond to rewards and punishments, and have irreversable mental incapacities. adoption is a leap of faith, so is having a biological child. that's why i put it in god's hands and asked god to choose the child for me. i like the security of knowing that once the IA child was home, it was unlikely there would be contact from relatives. i think that would be an added stress to relationships. plus once you reach 40 in america-good luck getting a child under age 5.
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