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Debi
Please re-read my post. I never said that the positive posts were a problem. I post many of them myself.
What I said was, there was a time when problems after adoption weren't really addressed here. That is no longer the case.
We share all. The good (and there is a lot of that) the not so good, and the heartache. I really believe this forum has grown into a very valuable resource.
I adopted two children, one of which I have had an extremely easy adjustment with and one of which I did not. It is as important to post the "how wonderfuls" as it is to post the "I need help". This gives PAPs a better view of what to realistically expect. They see how many had easy adjustments, how many did not and why. All the posts are important.
Christina
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Christina
Big Boy (b. 9/1/01 a. 11/16/04)
Buttercup (b. 6/8/04 a. 11/16/04)
Vladivostok, Russia
Every life event presents an opportunity, a gift. You just need to look closely to find it.
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