[soccermom77]

I am sorry to say that I have just left the judge's office signing papers on a temporary restraining order against her. She is showing up at my house at all hours, going by his school, and just freaking him out. She is also doing this to the siblings that are being raised by my relatives. They had to physically remove her from their house this weekend.

I have given her pictures of him since he was small, even had his baby pictures reprinted for her because she lost all the ones that she had when she actually had him.

On top of all of this, he has JUST contacted his birth grma and she has been told for the last 12 years that we would not allow contact with him!!!!!! He thought that she did not want to have anything to do with him. It was just a fluke one night that he GOOGLED her and found her email address and contacted her. I am happy to say that she has welcomed him and we plan to visit her this summer. So there is one positive thing about all of this. He has also been able to meet his cousins, we had them over just a few weeks ago.

Does it seem weird that he wants a relationship with his extended family but not her??