Yep. There's a difference between venting by saying: "Man, I am really upset that this woman treated our child like this." And making a hugely generalized statement by saying, "Man, I really hate how birthmothers treat their children."
I've seen that. And it hurts.
And Brandy poses a good point too, that it's not just one generalization. It's almost as if you have to fit a cookie-cutter mold in the adoption world to be accepted by all. It's unfair, really.
Bah!
