[michellemartin]

I think you're right, it does depend on age. If Karma were now to do something that put herself in physical danger I'd discuss it with her rather than spanking her. Both of those occasions were when she was under three.

I honestly dont think the way we disipline kids is what causes them to be "well behaved". I think consistancy is what causes better behavior because they know what to expect from us and what we expect of them.