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OOH! Heather, how exciting for you!
Yes, when we were matched for DD, I worried endlessly about bmom (pbmom at that time) ending contact and/or changing her mind. And I vowed never to make her wait for contact since I knew how it felt.... I'd go nuts between calls.
I can also say, with this stuff, when she emails me, I don't email her back right away. I usually check my email when I am doing a million things and instead of rushing a haphazard email back to her for her to know I received it, I wait until I can really sit and put the time into it that I want to and she deserves me to. She may be doing the same, waiting until she has quiet time to sit and send you an email answering your questions, and maybe compiling her own questions. I'll tell you I always smile when I see I have an email or when I hear I have a message from Bmom. I bet this woman is, too.
Hang in there. Oh, I know the wait for contact is brutal. But hang in. Try not to drive yourself nuts with all the what ifs. Just take it as it comes. And come vent here. :-) So happy for you.
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