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Old 03-27-2006, 02:46 PM
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It has been this way for me for a little more than a year. It does get better, but I have resigned myself to the fact that our personalities just aren't that compatible. I am now having uninterrupted stretches of time (days) where I feel the love I always thought I should feel. Commitment and structure and follow through and support mean just as much (if not more) than love. Love is usually the catalyst that ensures all these things happen and it CERTAINLY makes it easier....but you can do all this without it....and you will (at the least) gain a fondness or respect for him/her eventually.
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