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We are talking about maybe a compromise of sorts. Taking the whole family for the first week in the province, then my husband taking the middle two kids home and the oldest staying to "help" me. It would make it so we could all see some but would reduce the time in country for the two that will have the most challenges.
You could also have you and your husband travel (grandparent/aunt with kids at home) then have one parent come back early. After the official adoption which is usually on gotcha day or the day after then only one parent has to stay for the passport and then on to the US consulate. That way you could both meet your daughter see China and your boys would only be away from both parents for a few days not two weeks.
Diana
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