[traceyk]

Well, I am going to be bold and say that in our situation, not the "perfect" world, we ARE the best choice for Drihan. Her b-mom chose to do drugs, not get prenatal care and couldn't wait to sign her over(her words were recorded on paper stating such). Drihan would have been put into fostercare with her other half brothers if she didn't place her and thankgoodness she did what was best for her. And that is a phrase that a lot of people use when talking about why children are adopted. They say "your b-mom/b-parents did what was best for you because they love you". Well than that must be the truth, I am what's best. We can hash this out forever, but the same thing still remains, these babies are in need of homes and we are the wonderful mothers and fathers that stepped up to open our hearts and homes to them so we could give them all we have and be a family forever regardless to their race. That makes us the first choice regardless to our race!!!!!!