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Unfortunately it does happen. And sometimes it happens because the parents thought they were adopting a child with very few issues and instead the child has a lot more than the parents can handle.

There were a lot of misinformed parents I think who didn't realize the impact of RAD and other severe attachment issues. They didn't have the support or help in correct diagnoses and therapy and had no resources to effectively parent the child.

I'm not excusing everyone who disrupts but I can understand why it happens sometimes.