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Old 03-23-2006, 03:48 AM
Aphi86 Aphi86 is offline
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Please Bring Toys To Entertain Your Child

I don't want this to sound ugly, but more for a warning to future PAP. (Our trip is going very well, and court is tomorrow.) Today, however we spent at the babyhome and another family was there. We had left our toys for our child in the dr's office over night. When we returned we were told this other family had used them and they hoped that was ok. Well, what could I say. Our first thought was must be their first trip. Later in the morning they joined us with their two children in the Great Room. We had sectioned the room off as to give us both some privacy with our children. They showed up again with only one Barbie for a 2 yr old boy and 4 yr old girl. They proceeded to play roughly with the children for 2 hours letting them bang on the piano and generally rude and loud which was very disturbing. Also, for entertainment the dad kept lifting the kids to the light fixture and letting them touch the bulb!!!! Light fixtures are not toys in lieu of the ones YOU didn't bring. They were totally unprepared. And, here is the kicker...this was their second trip!!!! I am so offended and say this as a warning to others so they are not in the same situation, and also, they make adoptive parentns look foolish. AYE AYE AYE just had to vent!
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