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Will be a mommy, I agree, what you said about people coming to these decisions in their own time is so true...
Yes, sorry I got sidetracked on my point before. LOL! I was trying to show how people can come around and how your gut can lead you. I know you heard what I was saying. :-)
It's very scary to become parents, I think no matter how that happens. I think it's normal for each of us to have our own hesitation in our own time. With DH and I, he worries before hand, I worry during something. So while he's worrying in the preparation of things, I sort of keep him grounded. When I'm worrying during things, he keeps me grounded. We've learned this dance we have with each other so we know how to handle it and how to work with it. You and your bf may have a similar pattern. I think men tend to worry about logistics (especially financial aspects) before we do. Not that I don't worry about stuff, but I try to take things as they come. DH needs to have everything planned out and figured out in advance.
Hang in there!
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