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As a foster mom/soon-to-be adoptive mom to two girls age 9 & 11....and as an adult adoptee -- I agree. Your child is old enough to decide. "My" 9 year old is having a rough time seeing her birthmom and at first I pushed her a little...I've backed off and saw her anxiety levels go down, and her communication with me go up. Just be sure to let him know that you understand and will support him if/when he's ready to see her.
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