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Hi,
Okay, here is the deal: Some people in my family and friends circle voiced their own concerns and I too felt a little scared. Their main concern is that while, we all tell our adopted children of their adoption, their culture, etc.... I spoke to a few adopted children who have now grown up, and they do want to go back to their roots...... Their country, their heritage, etc..... i.e. most of them... some don't but some do..... and I felt they were hurting because though they were accepted by their adoptive families, they still were not accepted by outside world. And I don't know whether I am strong enough to face a situation like this in the future???????? I don't have siblings, and not too many close family members, and if at any time, I have to be alone in the future, what if the adopted child leaves me because of it's original roots, heritage, etc........ I'm so confused........
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