[will_be_a_mommy]

Thanks for the responses. I was relieved to know that there are others out there whose husbands quirmed about this adoption thing or even the baby thing in general, which mine has. Even with his biological daughter he did not want her but after changing her diapers and looking in her eyes, he fell head over heals for her. Plus, in my favor he happens to be a baby lover and has more of an urge to hold babies than I do.Although I cannot wait to hold my baby and have enjoyed holding certain babies.

C is a very indecisive person who kind of lets life happen to him, because he is too scared to make the bigger decisions in life.That is his only fault I can think of but I can live with that.

We will have to make some friends as Lisa said who are older and enjoying parenthood and Mama to 6 you are right his age definately is bothering him, while he spent the last 15 years fighting premature gray hair just recently he is showing signs of thinning out hair.I know he does not like this and who would. He is very fit though with the body of a man in his twenties and I can barely keep up with him and I am 9 years younger than him.

Still interested in hearing from others who had a drag their feet kind of guy or girl.