My dh was scared out of his mind!!!!! He had never parented and this new baby who is almost 2 now, would be his 1st child. Now dh wouldnt change our life for anything. Hope this is what your dh is feeling too.
As Lisa stated it is scary for some men. Finances and retirement etc seem to bother some men alot. Have you asked him to talk about what is bothering him? Maybe its not the finances at all, but the age???? Maybe its something that can be totally worked out.
Best of luck to you.
(LISA just because 2 people aren't legally married does not mean they cant adopt together.)
