[will_be_a_mommy]

Hi everyone,

I was just wondering if there were others out there like me who's spouse is not that supportive.

My Boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years and he has a 9 year old daughter already, me none. He understands my need to be a mom and has his moments when he will talk about when the baby comes. At 46 years old he says he needs to be thinking about retirement not about a baby.he already got the grandpa comments with this 9 yo daughter due to his premature grey hair.

I know he loves babies and am almost certain when the baby comes in August he will be sucked in by him.

I get upset at him and his selfishness but then again aren't I being selfish as well.