[tycunha]

Hi, I have a 4 1/2 year old biological son, my husband and I are just starting the process of considering adoption, because of medical reasons it is recommended that I not have another birth child. I was wondering if anyone else has a bio first and adopted child second and how that is working, how the first child accepted it, etc.... My husband is worried that he would feel differently, which is making him question if we should pursue this or surrogacy. I feel like surrogacy is a huge if??? And a lot to go thru when we already have a bio child, why not help another child in need. I believe that we will not compare the two and love them both equally, however I appreciate his honesty and was wondering if about others experiences?