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Well I am not going to say anything that hasn't already been said. You and your husband should probably do some soul-searching on this one. You have to do what is best for your family. I think ALL of us on this board can empathize with how your feeling.. I have had all of those emotions too- just look at my timeline. We've had NOTHING but delays and set backs this whole process, but my motivation and focus is and will continue to be my daughter and bringing her home. She just turned 7 months old and we were referred when she was a few weeks old. Yes, we have missed many milestones and firsts, and that breaks my heart, but it's only for a little while. I just look forward to the future with her. We have spent the past 19 months planning a future with a daughter.. Please talk this over with your agency and get thier opinion. They probably have some words of advice for you- Good luck.
Angie
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8/2004- began Russian adoption
referrals suspended in Russia-What???
8/2005 switched to Guatamala
9/05 Referral of Arely- 4 wks old
12/05 Wonderful visit, w/o DNA
1/23- FC
complication after complication
Called Senator for help
2/20 Wonderful visit #2, still no DNA!!!
3/01-Meeting w/ Senator
3/07- DNA authorization and SWI
3/20- DNA test done
3/27- In PGN w/o PA
4/4- DNA match
4/26 PA
5/4-KO 1, 5/8 back in
5/18-22- wonderful visit #3
5/?- KO 2 and back in
7/5- ko 3, 8/4 back in
8/9 baby girl turns ONE
9/9 OUT of PGN
10/5 PINK
10/13- Embassy appt..
10/17-HOME--yeah!!!!
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