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Just to let you know that even in 2004 things like getting PA were also slow but you can make progress later on. Ricco was referred June 25 th and DNA was not done until September 8 or so. PA wasn't issued until September 29 and I had him home November.
You cannot predict your time line. Would you turn a child down for having curly instead of straight hair. You cannot predict a lot of what happens. How can you put the blame on the child. I know the agency you are using and its always gotten very good reviews, sometimes life throws us a curve and we just have to go with it. It seems to me like you are not ready to proceed with a second adoption if you are not willing to make the sacrifices of waiting. I think the suggestion of counseling is well worth your while to consider. And as others have said, a second referral may not be any better. Think it over before you make your decision
Mary, mom to Danny and Ricco
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