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Technically, the term "disrupted adoption" refers to relinquishing parental rights only after the adoption has been compeleted -- meanng after a judge has indicated that the child is legally yours, you essentially say that you no longer want the child to be your legal child. At this point, this little one is not your adoptive daughter, so you would simply terminate the adoptive proceedings, but not disrupt.
I am so very sorry that you have been through all of this. I cannot offer any advice, as I am a convert from the Russian board, but encourage you to have a very frank talk with your agency about your fears and feelings. They may be able to shed some light on it all...
Best of luck to you.
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Proud mommy to 2 Russian miracles:
** Amazing son, born 07/2002, adopted 04/2003 from Kirov, and
** Beautiful baby girl, born 02/2004, adopted 10/2004 from Tver.
Our family is complete!
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