[Babybmine]

I think I finally understand the process for Korea adoptions, however there is one thing I dont understand. we are considering using CHSFS (thank you for everyone who pmd me) and we are looking at their waiting child program. I have heard that you pick from a list of children, instead of being referred one. Is this true? I am not sure if I am totally confortable with that. I mean I am ok picking a child, but what about the ones that I dont pick? I am afraid that I will stay up at night worried about these children. Does anyone know if this is true and how did you handle it?
Thanks for your advice and please forgive my ignorance on this subject.
Carla