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Originally Posted by phills
Hey Jody,
As for the questions about your life, relationships, family history, etc, etc. What I found out was-my family is just as crazy as my hubby's family, just in a different "non obvious" way! 
My hubby and I talked about things that we had just "skimmed" over previously, ie: how his Dad made him feel as a child. Basically coming to the conclusions that he was 'emotionally abused' Pretty rough stuff to realize, but actually very theraputic for him.
I realized how screwed up my relationship with my Mother was/is/was, and how that effects how I parent my kids today.
All in all, they are very obtrusive, which is very uncomfortable, but we got through it, and I'm sure you can too!
I don't remember a sex question? But there could be!  |
We actually found this too, that there were things from our past that affect even our relationship with each other or other people that we hadn't recognized or talked about yet. It gave us a forum to talk about some things that had never come up before. We had some very good talks in preparing for our homestudy.
Not only that, but I loved hearing DH tell SW how much he loved me, lol! I know he does but he is a man of few words, unlike me, lol!
Yeah, some of the questions are very intrusive...it is just part of the process. As I recall, no one dwelled on the "sex" question in our HS.