[amyfk]

Thanks Ladies for your response.

I didnt even think about it, but I have heard that Korea is an established program and very straightforward. As well as China I believe. Also in most cases if a woman has a healthy pregnancy, she can usually count on giving birth within approx. 9 mo. time.

Boy I didnt realize how difficult Russian adoption is until you directly compared it to Korean adoption mkbbr. My husband wanted to adopt a caucasian child, so that's why we chose Russia. I knew it woudl be bumpy, but I didnt know how bumpy.

Mjkkbbr, I hope that you get your travel/court date soon. Please let us know when you do. Thanks ladies for letting me know I'm not the only one here feeling this way. I dont consider myself to be a control freak, but I do like a level of control in my life and knowing things will/will not happen, and this one is a hard one.

Thanks for sharing, If you can get through a Russian adoption, I think you can get through anything.

Amy K, NJ