[sugarbabysmommy]

I'm not sure you should be considering your cousin (her OBGYN) as the inside track, privacy laws exist for a reason, and she has the right to that privacy and to expect her own doctor to have only her interests in mind. That said, I can relate to your feelings about the phone call. It is nerve wracking to make a connection, to worry am I doing this right. But I think your feeling that this is a lot for her to deal with and take in is a good one, and one you should keep just as much in the forefront as you most certainly have your own feelings and excitement. Good luck, it's a wild ride with little comparison,